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10.02.2014

Know Yourself: Daily Writing



“We do not write in order to be understood, we write in order to understand.” ~C. Day-Lewis

This quote is one of my favorite perspectives about writing:  it helps us understand.  Writing helps us better process ourselves, our worlds, our paths, our challenges, as well as our hopes and dreams.  Writing helps us bring abstractions to life – to bring color to grey thoughts that linger in our minds.
 

Let’s talk about daily writing today.  Shall we?


Today, I’d like to share a few resources that have helped me keep my personal writing up:

Although I’ve loved writing and journaling since I was a child, it was Sarah Ban Breathnach’s Simple Abundance:  A Daybook of Comfort and Joy that reminded me in my adult years to write down my thoughts each day.  She calls it her “daily dialogue” – pulling out the thoughts from her head – her “stream of consciousness” - and putting them on paper each day.

Julia Cameron, author of The Artist’s Way, is also a staunch believer in daily writing.  She calls her writing doing her “morning pages” – taking half an hour or so to extract all of the thoughts in her mind in the morning and putting them on paper so she can think more clearly throughout the day. 

This past summer, I reinstated mandatory morning pages for this mama – and it was just what I needed.  I set my alarm each morning during the week (weekends were optional) to wake up one hour before my children.  All I needed was a cup of hot coffee and my notebook and pen – these were simple pleasures that allowed me to get reacquainted with myself.  And they are still my favorite things!

Take some time to find a notebook (and a writing utensil!) that feels comfortable.  You may decide to choose a lovely journal. Or, you may feel a spiral notebook is more your style.  Because I write so much and so frequently, spiral notebooks have become a great option - they’re easier to keep up with, they’re larger and more economical since I’m buying them often.  This summer, though, I chose a journal I felt would boost my creativity a bit:


If paper is not your favorite thing, or if you’re really trying to minimize things and stick with technology, try using Evernote.  It’s a great application that is available for most smart phones and all computers.  When I’m caught without paper, I use Evernote on my phone.  It’s super user-friendly, and it's also slightly addicting.

Daily writing is not so much about the paper or pens – but about the routine of taking time for yourself to be aware of your thoughts.  To stop and breathe and think.  What is God telling you today?  What is on your mind?  What challenges do you need to work through? What things are you excited about?

One thing today:  Find a notebook that you love.  Then find a pen that writes comfortably.  Or, check out Evernote online and/or download the free app on your phone.  Take five minutes to write!

Resources:
Simple Abundance by Sarah Ban Breathnach
The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron

10.01.2014

Hello, 31 days of finding our passion.



“Our vocation is not simply to be, but to work together with God in the creation of our own life, our own identity, our own destiny.”  ~Thomas Merton

Welcome to a journey, friend.

Today begins a 31-day expedition to finding our passion and learning a little more about ourselves. My hope is that this will be a journey for both of us that will reunite us with our passion(s): first, by identifying those elements we feel so strongly about, and secondly, by finding a path to pursue them.   

God has hard-wired us to have passions - but we need to find them!  This month, I hope to help you find yours.

My story...

This year, I’m in a new season of life:  my baby boy just began kindergarten this fall and is in school full-time.  My other baby is a strong-willed fourth-grade girl who is ready to conquer the world!  For the first time, our babies are finally together at the same school.  (And, yes, I will always refer to them as my babies.  Always.)  I’m still trying to get used to this new season of not having any children at home.  I've had a few emotional days.

In my past season of life, though, when I was the mama of littles running around the house and had very limited free time, I let tasks and commitments govern me – and made little to no time for personal creative pursuits.  Only mama and house business.  All the time.  Fresh food first.  Laundry next.  Exercise and sleep (good – but not always fun).  Commitments after that. ...These activities left very little mental creative time for this mama.  Plus, I was basing my self-worth on how well I was finishing my to-do list every day.  

Once my little guy dropped his afternoon nap, I set no boundaries for my personal time (which is also when I stopped blogging).  I love spending time with our children, but I seldom saved any of my time for the one thing I needed most:  creative dabbling, dwelling in possibility, resting in an idea, pursuing a creative vision.  It seemed too self-indulgent!  Discipline as a wife, mother and other roles had won:  it wouldn’t leave any room for beauty, spontaneity, whimsy, color or fun. 

This past spring, I found myself feeling a little lost - wondering who I was beyond being a mother. I felt very grey - like I was living in a monotone world.  (Remember the movie “Pleasantville”?) After several tearful conversations with my supportive husband, I realized that I had become so disciplined that I had simply lost a part of myself.  The creative path was no longer a part of my life; I had simply lost my role as a creative writer mama.  

And I wasn’t even sure I had the energy to get it back.

Baby steps


The more mamas I speak to, the more I'm learning that this lack of passion is a common experience for many women.

What about you?  How are you feeling today?

Take a few minutes to think about what’s on your mind and write down your thoughts.  Start creating some mental space for things other than your to-do list. What do you feel passionate about today?

Taking time to write down my thoughts a few minutes each day was the beginning of a therapeutic, productive process.  I'll share more about that tomorrow.

 
The Oxford Dictionary defines passion as strong emotion or enthusiasm; eagerness, intensity, zeal, mania, obsession, craze, hunger, itch, yearning, longing, desire.

How about a cup of this?  Yes, please!

Looking forward to our journey.

I'd like to dedicate this post to Kat at HowTheyBlog.com and Anne at Modern Mrs. Darcy.  Anne talked about passion in a recent interview with Kat - and it really sparked a creative process.  Many thanks, Kat and Anne.